Well, I'm obviously just great at Keeping friendships :P
her name was that of a flower and she is so awful to many.
or, so they say.
I don't beleive it.
Because I'm the one who's done wrong
the last six months, sorry, seven, have been the best and worst of my whole life.
I know, it's crazy?
But now she hates me, and thinks I'm obsessed about her.
WHich I'm NOT.
That's actually a really long story, which I will tell... at least some of.
I've come out very different.
Last December I was a shy, naive, geeky little kid.
I knew nothing of poetry, or reading books.
I did not care for composition, didn't really want to learn a real instrument.
I didn't care terribly for philosophy.
But then, she began to talk to me.
Then there were books, and words.
I began to do more than just lip-sync in cantala.
She gave me the confidence to turn up for the first day of school.
And to choir.
Because she said something I stopped drinking, that night.
and then I tried to kill myself.
Several times, infact.
LIA I AM NOT EXAGGERATING I DONT COUNT THAT THURSDAY
anyways....
I was in the mental hospital/ kiddies phyc unit.
And getting better.
I missed her at first.
But not for loing.
I was really gettinbg better,
then just before I was due to start taking meds.
She came to visit me.
It was fantastic. She even told me that we were friends, in words.
But then after she left, I fell right back down to where I was before.
I was stmbling on from that point, I only held on so I could see her again.
And so she could write me a letter.
Then I worked out that would not happen.
And it did turn into a bit of an obsession, she became not a person but a little paper doll I could keep on a shelf in my mind,
but I knew this was wrong.
So I began to get serious with the self harming.
It was a punishment for becoming attached to her.
I wouldn't even allow myself to speak to her.
And it worked.
Second to last week of the term, that broke.
And then I wasn't.
Between a missinterpretation of social cues, she hates me.
But for a while, it was good.
She was going to make every one behave normally when I came back to school, after my first admission. She told me a few things I can't ever repeat. She said hi to me in the hallway.
And I abused that.
There are many good memories, more than the bad, I think.
But I won't write them here.
Not now.
I'm not sober and I don't want to scare her.
But I'm not obsessed.
And it was a cute friendship.
Even if it never would have lasted.
That was when it all went pear-shaped.
When she told me she would end it in four months, my choice or not. (we were in singPore airport)
And all though the year, I was always ducking certain questions.
Becasue the truth was I was afraid to loose her.
Maybe if I'd confessed five months ago, told her: I don't want to never see you again", straight up this would be less screwy.
If you read this LB, I'm sorry.
If only I could convince you I'm not obsessed.
And that I don't love you
or that I don't think of you all the time.
But, because you were a role model
(like it or not)
you changed me.
So thank-you.
Even if I am going to die.
Thank-you.
And I hope your life will become fantastic.
her name was that of a flower and she is so awful to many.
or, so they say.
I don't beleive it.
Because I'm the one who's done wrong
the last six months, sorry, seven, have been the best and worst of my whole life.
I know, it's crazy?
But now she hates me, and thinks I'm obsessed about her.
WHich I'm NOT.
That's actually a really long story, which I will tell... at least some of.
I've come out very different.
Last December I was a shy, naive, geeky little kid.
I knew nothing of poetry, or reading books.
I did not care for composition, didn't really want to learn a real instrument.
I didn't care terribly for philosophy.
But then, she began to talk to me.
Then there were books, and words.
I began to do more than just lip-sync in cantala.
She gave me the confidence to turn up for the first day of school.
And to choir.
Because she said something I stopped drinking, that night.
and then I tried to kill myself.
Several times, infact.
LIA I AM NOT EXAGGERATING I DONT COUNT THAT THURSDAY
anyways....
I was in the mental hospital/ kiddies phyc unit.
And getting better.
I missed her at first.
But not for loing.
I was really gettinbg better,
then just before I was due to start taking meds.
She came to visit me.
It was fantastic. She even told me that we were friends, in words.
But then after she left, I fell right back down to where I was before.
I was stmbling on from that point, I only held on so I could see her again.
And so she could write me a letter.
Then I worked out that would not happen.
And it did turn into a bit of an obsession, she became not a person but a little paper doll I could keep on a shelf in my mind,
but I knew this was wrong.
So I began to get serious with the self harming.
It was a punishment for becoming attached to her.
I wouldn't even allow myself to speak to her.
And it worked.
Second to last week of the term, that broke.
And then I wasn't.
Between a missinterpretation of social cues, she hates me.
But for a while, it was good.
She was going to make every one behave normally when I came back to school, after my first admission. She told me a few things I can't ever repeat. She said hi to me in the hallway.
And I abused that.
There are many good memories, more than the bad, I think.
But I won't write them here.
Not now.
I'm not sober and I don't want to scare her.
But I'm not obsessed.
And it was a cute friendship.
Even if it never would have lasted.
That was when it all went pear-shaped.
When she told me she would end it in four months, my choice or not. (we were in singPore airport)
And all though the year, I was always ducking certain questions.
Becasue the truth was I was afraid to loose her.
Maybe if I'd confessed five months ago, told her: I don't want to never see you again", straight up this would be less screwy.
If you read this LB, I'm sorry.
If only I could convince you I'm not obsessed.
And that I don't love you
or that I don't think of you all the time.
But, because you were a role model
(like it or not)
you changed me.
So thank-you.
Even if I am going to die.
Thank-you.
And I hope your life will become fantastic.